Learning, Growing, Changing

a shift in my online work

Hi there friends,

I’m back from my little break. Honestly, it took me less time to gain clarity than I expected. I thought it would take at least a month away, but after some prayer and discussion with my husband, a few things became quite clear.

I’m going to step back from Biblical womanhood teaching online.

I still deeply believe all the things I’ve shared, but the truth is I’m still learning and growing. And to be honest… I am still struggling to walk these things out with joy. There are days I struggle to find joy in being with my children 24/7. There are times I struggle to submit to my husband or to respond to his correction with humility instead of excuses. I confess my sin, and I’m seeking to put to death the deeds of my flesh, but I don’t feel like I’m in the right season to be teaching what I’m still trying to faithfully live. To be honest, it feels hypocritical. James 3:1 comes to mind:

“My brethren, let not many of you become teachers, knowing that we shall receive a stricter judgment.”

I’m going to be showing up online in a much more lighthearted way.

I enjoy creating content, and I enjoy writing. Photography and videography feel like a simple art I can practice in the crevices of my busy life. Those things are life-giving and fun for me—especially with the pressure to teach removed.

I just want to share little pieces of my life and my story. I want to share quotes, music, crafts, dresses, recipes, products, and books I’ve been enjoying lately.

I’m no longer making commitments to post on a schedule or to do a series.

Saying I will post once a week on Substack or three times a week on Facebook and Instagram absolutely zaps my creativity. Saying I’ll write a series or host a book club ends up feeling like a burden. It makes me dread doing what I once loved. So I’m making no commitments. I’ll share when creativity strikes and time allows. And if my life feels too full or too heavy, then I simply won’t—and you’ll just know that’s how I roll.

I will still honor commitments to companies I partner with, but that feels manageable. Most companies are also very gracious and understanding when life gets in the way.

I’m no longer following growth strategies.

I’m not sharing for the algorithm—I’m sharing for the joy of sharing and connecting with like-minded women. The right sisters will find me. I used to feel stressed if something performed badly, and then I’d fall into posting what worked before… even when it wasn’t what I actually wanted to share. I’m done with that.

I’m not using AI anymore.

I had been using it to polish my writing and create stock images. I don’t feel I used it in a dishonest way, but it often polished my personality right out of my words. I love capturing everyday beauty, and AI tends to strip the creativity, fun, and personality from content. Even though it’s an easy button, I don’t want it. I want to enjoy the process, and I want the work I share—my photos and videos—to truly be my own. Without the pressure to constantly produce, I don’t feel the need for shortcuts.

So that’s where I’m headed, and I hope you’ll stick around.

With love,

Stacey

PS I took these photos today on my walk. I absolutely love spring!